A Rugby Family

Coaching is a demanding job and requires a great deal of time away from your family. Luckily, I am able to counter this assertion for a couple of reasons. First on my list is the fact that I have an amazingly understanding and supportive wife - Sonya. She has been involved in my 23 years of rugby in one aspect or the other and understands the pull it has on me and the requirements it places on time. In addition, she understands the game better than many of the coaches I know. I believe not enough can be said for coaches’ wives and all they have to endure throughout a season (and beyond). Her love and support has been absolutely integral to my successes and even more important during my times of failure – what an amazing woman! I should also mention that she is an extremely successful professional and despite her busy work schedule never misses a game.

In addition to having a supportive wife I am extremely blessed to have my sons heavily involved in the game. My oldest boy, Conor, is our team’s starting flyhalf and leading scorer. He started varsity as a freshman and continues to grow with each game. Despite what many people say about coaching your own kids – I wouldn’t trade the opportunity for anything in the world. We have a very special relationship, which I cherish. My middle son, Riley, is our team video expert and his sense of humor and perspective often keep me going when times are tough. Keegan, my youngest son, is also a player and is heavily involved with touch rugby in the Woodlands where he provided us with many thrilling moments this season. All three are awesome kids and the pride of their father.

The joy derived at having your family involved in the game you love is indescribable. We all shared a very special moment when our team won the Western Championships this last weekend -one which will last all of us a lifetime – I am truly blessed.

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